It will literally take years, if I were to outline every concept that contributes to ‘my take’, on the impact these “issues” of socialization that have occured to date…and the way that we live our lives…the impact we will have on others. No one on this planet, lives in isolation…we feel most comfortable when we are with those who are like-minded. Most often it will be with family members to which we will feel most comfortable (if all grew up together, where both parents are like-minded). There are more exceptions to the rule now…as there is more unions and marriages that cross ethnic, racial, cultural or religious boundaries. Society is indeed rapidly changing, and many find themselves “lost” in understanding or appreciating the younger generation…or their new neighbours…if they are differing in any of the mentioned distinctions. For centuries, there have been “clusters” of cultures or religious groups (often all attending the same church…if small enough town and only one church)…this has all changed…yet we do have many “elders”…who remember “the way that it was”. In a different way, I do feel we need to return to a sense of community,…but under the metaphor of “the Village Well“.
Not all cultures (there are actually more differing ones that what a collective mosaic of North America represents) have the same appreciation for our collective consiousness…of “Free” Enterprise and consumerism (otherwise known as Capitalism). Historically, we have also mis-represented the cultural realities and perspective of those Native cultures to which many of our ancestors “forced” their way into living here…on their Native soil…and we “forced” assimilation on them. We had seemilngly discarded the internal “power” source that the Puritans defined in their faith and their freindships to native peoples who resiprocated with their “spiritual power” of giving…until Corruption and greed, landed on “New World” soil and propliferated and stimulated a reciprical “power of fear and hatred”. ( Can we possibly imagine the fear of loss of land, loss of life, loss of culture?). Further we have represented in the History books and Hollywood depictions that all “natives” were very much the same. They were represented as “heathen” and “savages”. Any other group…mostly European…regardless of country of origin…has portrayed their defensive “battles” as heroic…patriotic and what any “moral, upstanding citizen” would do…would be to fight for their country…fight for freedom…North American “Indians” had been condemned and stripped of their cultural (moral) rights and freedoms…with legacies such as the Residential Schools as a historical and “spiritual” (ethical and moral) violations of even ‘white man’s’ laws.
So, to gain the fullest appreciation possible… I encourage this. Begin with your our spiritual approach…to opening up your heart and mind. This should be a “soul”ful experience…it may include prayer, meditation , or quiet reflection. This has the potential to transform your life…as it has mine. Second…if you have a strong orientation to Biblical accounts and interpretations from religious sources of “leadership”…you will need to reflect on and evaluate with a critical mind and spirit…all that you may have been taught. If you feel that the teachings you were exposed to were 100% “dead-on”…and that you are “imovable” in your beliefs and convictions…I encourage you to go no further. If you believe as I do,…that we continue on an endless path of discovery…if only the Bible in hand…contnuous growth is mandated by the Creator.
As In any transfromation, spiritual conversion is likely to take place…if you are uncomfortable at all with that…I encourage you to continue to read…as open-minded as possible…but it must be with a hope of greater enlightenment and/or spiritual awakening…that you would “want” for yourself.
Few things in life will be as important as coming to that place where you will have appreciation of the purpose and meaning of life. There are many spiritual facilitators and books where you can begin your search…or you may actually find it in that source you have always relied upon. The World’s Great Religions all have their script and their Historic Teacher/Prophet…and we all can reflect on history to see that multiple interpretations (and corruptions) of truth…are part of the great “reality”. How you define reality and your connection to the divine or “source” of truth…can only be complete if you take the “inward journey”…with open heart and mind….follow me so far…not too different than the many “new life, new age” teachers, guru’s or philosophers, all the while I have quite a “theological exposure”.
It is helpful that you study some anthropology, sociology, political science and of course History inclusive of Theology or Religious Studies. You need not be afraid of Brain-washing here…as you can turn away…or close out the site…and walk away with no influence to your heart and soul…whatsoever. I do suggest you consider the consequence of not opening up…you remain…in a historical trap…not able to resolve those very issues that lie as the foundation of Human Suffering…and failure to find peace in this world…or peace of mind. The purpose and meaning of life…in simplest terms, is to learn, to live and to leave a Legacy.
What will be your Legacy?
Power- This needs to be seperated out from the concept of ‘Force’, which is an external phenomenon…one thing influencing another. Power on the other hand…is internal…that which drives the engine of the essence of the person…the organism…or organization. Power is something we all long to have,…and get fearful or anxious if it needs to be surrendered…even if it is as simple a the power to choose what to eat…or what to believe.
The Legacy of the Residential School System stands as a metaphor, for understanding this conceptualization of the violation that occurs when one group, using ‘force’ to assimilate or enculturate another to ways of living, thinking and believing. The “stripping” of the internal Power to choose, and determine one’s own destiny (autonony or Self-determination), can be likened to “spiritual and cultural Rape”. Further we know now that there were additional and immoral/unethical violations that included Physical Rape, Physical Abuse,…and the idea of being “extracted” from their families in the name of Religious, Political (Governmental) and Racial Ideologies brings the other three concepts under scrutiny…in moral, ethical and spiritual illuminations. Oppression has been a historical reality of many…racial and gender lead a cast of many underpinnings of oppression. Competition…from historical development…is what the Invasion and Conguerings (and Assimilation) of the New World was all about. Competition is ingrained in our North American School systems and the Athletic/Fashion/Research and Development Enterprises that have risen to control our minds and pocket-books. Finally, Discrimination should not need explanation. What is needed though is truth, honesty and open-ness of our hearts and minds to recognize, acknowledge and resolve the many ways that Discrimination remains to be one of the most prevelant “global” problems of the world today. Age, Race, Gender, Ethnicity,…religious/spiritual orientations…sexual orientation…professional orientation (I think of the plight of Nurses as I think of Oppression, Competition and Discrimination…my lived reality)…the list goes on and on…you are free to say, that you are “FREE” from discriminatory feelings, thoughts and actions…but I have yet to be free, or find any one else that is truly free…in all my 50 plus years.
We all need to be “free” to love, Free to Forgive and Free to return to that sense of community, depicted by the Village Well analogy or the Blue River metaphor. (That too, I will present in a later blog.)
So,…while this blog will be transferred to “Transformative Living” Website…this should get us started in what I consider the most important considerations to make , in any “spiritual journey”, or evalutation of a Personal Legacy. Please join in, comment, contribute and contemplate along with us here in this online community.
BE wise,
BE well,
BE Enlightened, Emancipated and Empowered,
Dave