Archive for May, 2007
Learning, living and leaving a Legacy

There have been some great metaphors for life that I will share in time, further, please be patient for the further development and release of blueriverinnovations.com, which I hope to have up next week.

As I expand on the streams already posted,…I have reason to draw attention to the Social Integration model, which is defined a different way than under Pages in the left column, or by clicking here and review the entire primary-health-care.net site.

Please return…more to come…have a great week-end…Dad turns 80 on Sunday…join us at Camper’s Cove Wheatley Ontario….3pm to 5pm.

BE wise, BE well,

Dave

Power, Oppression, Competition and Discrimination

It will literally take years, if I were to outline every concept that contributes to ‘my take’, on the impact these “issues” of socialization that have occured to date…and the way that we live our lives…the impact we will have on others. No one on this planet, lives in isolation…we feel most comfortable when we are with those who are like-minded. Most often it will be with family members to which we will feel most comfortable (if all grew up together, where both parents are like-minded). There are more exceptions to the rule now…as there is more unions and marriages that cross ethnic, racial, cultural or religious boundaries. Society is indeed rapidly changing, and many find themselves “lost” in understanding or appreciating the younger generation…or their new neighbours…if they are differing in any of the mentioned distinctions. For centuries, there have been “clusters” of cultures or religious groups (often all attending the same church…if small enough town and only one church)…this has all changed…yet we do have many “elders”…who remember “the way that it was”. In a different way, I do feel we need to return to a sense of community,…but under the metaphor of “the Village Well“.
Not all cultures (there are actually more differing ones that what a collective mosaic of North America represents) have the same appreciation for our collective consiousness…of “Free” Enterprise and consumerism (otherwise known as Capitalism). Historically, we have also mis-represented the cultural realities and perspective of those Native cultures to which many of our ancestors “forced” their way into living here…on their Native soil…and we “forced” assimilation on them. We had seemilngly discarded the internal “power” source that the Puritans defined in their faith and their freindships to native peoples who resiprocated with their “spiritual power” of giving…until Corruption and greed, landed on “New World” soil and propliferated and stimulated a reciprical “power of fear and hatred”. ( Can we possibly imagine the fear of loss of land, loss of life, loss of culture?). Further we have represented in the History books and Hollywood depictions that all “natives” were very much the same. They were represented as “heathen” and “savages”. Any other group…mostly European…regardless of country of origin…has portrayed their defensive “battles” as heroic…patriotic and what any “moral, upstanding citizen” would do…would be to fight for their country…fight for freedom…North American “Indians” had been condemned and stripped of their cultural (moral) rights and freedoms…with legacies such as the Residential Schools as a historical and “spiritual” (ethical and moral) violations of even ‘white man’s’ laws.

So, to gain the fullest appreciation possible… I encourage this. Begin with your our spiritual approach…to opening up your heart and mind. This should be a “soul”ful experience…it may include prayer, meditation , or quiet reflection. This has the potential to transform your life…as it has mine. Second…if you have a strong orientation to Biblical accounts and interpretations from religious sources of “leadership”…you will need to reflect on and evaluate with a critical mind and spirit…all that you may have been taught. If you feel that the teachings you were exposed to were 100% “dead-on”…and that you are “imovable” in your beliefs and convictions…I encourage you to go no further. If you believe as I do,…that we continue on an endless path of discovery…if only the Bible in hand…contnuous growth is mandated by the Creator.
As In any transfromation, spiritual conversion is likely to take place…if you are uncomfortable at all with that…I encourage you to continue to read…as open-minded as possible…but it must be with a hope of greater enlightenment and/or spiritual awakening…that you would “want” for yourself.

Few things in life will be as important as coming to that place where you will have appreciation of the purpose and meaning of life. There are many spiritual facilitators and books where you can begin your search…or you may actually find it in that source you have always relied upon. The World’s Great Religions all have their script and their Historic Teacher/Prophet…and we all can reflect on history to see that multiple interpretations (and corruptions) of truth…are part of the great “reality”. How you define reality and your connection to the divine or “source” of truth…can only be complete if you take the “inward journey”…with open heart and mind….follow me so far…not too different than the many “new life, new age” teachers, guru’s or philosophers, all the while I have quite a “theological exposure”.

It is helpful that you study some anthropology, sociology, political science and of course History inclusive of Theology or Religious Studies. You need not be afraid of Brain-washing here…as you can turn away…or close out the site…and walk away with no influence to your heart and soul…whatsoever. I do suggest you consider the consequence of not opening up…you remain…in a historical trap…not able to resolve those very issues that lie as the foundation of Human Suffering…and failure to find peace in this world…or peace of mind. The purpose and meaning of life…in simplest terms, is to learn, to live and to leave a Legacy.

What will be your Legacy?

Power- This needs to be seperated out from the concept of ‘Force’, which is an external phenomenon…one thing influencing another. Power on the other hand…is internal…that which drives the engine of the essence of the person…the organism…or organization. Power is something we all long to have,…and get fearful or anxious if it needs to be surrendered…even if it is as simple a the power to choose what to eat…or what to believe.

The Legacy of the Residential School System stands as a metaphor, for understanding this conceptualization of the violation that occurs when one group, using ‘force’ to assimilate or enculturate another to ways of living, thinking and believing. The “stripping” of the internal Power to choose, and determine one’s own destiny (autonony or Self-determination), can be likened to “spiritual and cultural Rape”. Further we know now that there were additional and immoral/unethical violations that included Physical Rape, Physical Abuse,…and the idea of being “extracted” from their families in the name of Religious, Political (Governmental) and Racial Ideologies brings the other three concepts under scrutiny…in moral, ethical and spiritual illuminations. Oppression has been a historical reality of many…racial and gender lead a cast of many underpinnings of oppression. Competition…from historical development…is what the Invasion and Conguerings (and Assimilation) of the New World was all about. Competition is ingrained in our North American School systems and the Athletic/Fashion/Research and Development Enterprises that have risen to control our minds and pocket-books. Finally, Discrimination should not need explanation. What is needed though is truth, honesty and open-ness of our hearts and minds to recognize, acknowledge and resolve the many ways that Discrimination remains to be one of the most prevelant “global” problems of the world today. Age, Race, Gender, Ethnicity,…religious/spiritual orientations…sexual orientation…professional orientation (I think of the plight of Nurses as I think of Oppression, Competition and Discrimination…my lived reality)…the list goes on and on…you are free to say, that you are “FREE” from discriminatory feelings, thoughts and actions…but I have yet to be free, or find any one else that is truly free…in all my 50 plus years.

We all need to be “free” to love, Free to Forgive and Free to return to that sense of community, depicted by the Village Well analogy or the Blue River metaphor. (That too, I will present in a later blog.)
So,…while this blog will be transferred to “Transformative Living” Website…this should get us started in what I consider the most important considerations to make , in any “spiritual journey”, or evalutation of a Personal Legacy. Please join in, comment, contribute and contemplate along with us here in this online community.

BE wise,

BE well,

BE Enlightened, Emancipated and Empowered,

Dave

So many issues…so little time

I do regret that I am unable to post most days. I know that I have left many “in the dark” or “out of the loop” as to what is happening with my Dad, with my career move(s) and my straight out opinions on current events…inclusive but not-exclusive to health care. For those just joining in, you will need to scan back to earlier blogs to appreciate that I am “in deep” on many levels. I will say that with the “school break” (not teaching till Sept.) I am able to read more non-Health related material (while I contend it is all health related)…and continue on this journey reading about 10-15 books simulaneously (always have). I have just completed the latest offering by David R. Hawkins Power vs Force…the determinants of Human Behaviour. Very deep and has impacted my thinking greatly…as has the second book by Robert Pirsig Lila, the follow-up to Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance which I plan to return to read a second time, after I finish one of the many others. The Secret and The Strangest Secret are also on the recent list of recommended reads, along with anything written by Wayne Dyer. While wanting to get my head and heart back into B.K.S Iyengar’s latest book…Light on Life, I intend on also reviewing favorite passages from my most read book,..the Bible. Yes, you read right.

I intend to capture the essence of this thing called morality (it is the under-pinning of Lila…not so much a book about a person). I also need to share a little of the discussions I have been having as of late. Life is so very, very interesting at times…and if I can share the metaphor of this morning’s visit to the river…maybe it will be helpful. Life just flows…we need to do nothing, and life still “just happens.” We can “go with the flow” and sometimes a bend in the river comes along and/or a narrowed straight or a set of rapids. It always appears that the water flows faster over shallow waters, narrowed passages or the rough and tumble area that is ‘rocky’. Well, what I witnessed this morning was most interesing, as a narrowed passage followed by rapids, then a sharp bend, creates a visual illusion that the river is moving in both directions in the same section of the river…just before the bend…just after the rapids. Of course this happens, due to the turbulent waters heading straight to the bank at the bend and as the bend turned right sharply, the water to the immediate right courses on smoothly and quickly,…while the water to the left (farthest from the bend), actually heads back along the bank…as if to return to challenge the rapids and the faster moving water. A nearly whirlpool effect is bordered by “static” still waters “trapped” against the “upstream” bank of the “narrowed” straight.

So, here is the metaphor….life can be (will be) turbulent at times by the sheer nature that we cannot predict or control the ’straight and narrow.’ We may intend to always head in the right direction or “go with the flow” but there will always be…by the pure nature of it all…bends, turns, the rocky rapids…as easily as there will be straight and narrows. We can have a guide or two, for our journey…but as mentioned before… “No one can step into the same river twice”…there are never two people who will journey the same river with the same experience of depth change…or how turbulent it will feel. With a new rainfall,…the journey down that same river would not be the same as after a drought.

I am so very pleased that I have opened up to the guidance of some very phenomenal folks,…some from work settings, others of my family…while extremely grateful for a surprise visit with some awesome folks..two from my past…parents of an old school mate,…another an incredible soul who, by example of loving, giving and service…touched me deeply. To you M. L., I appreciate the time and wisdom…to you all, I indeed appreciate the inspiration. God is with you.

I leave this with you now as not to make this too long a blog,…but I intend to return to share more on this visit…I will have much to add to my Biography…that will expand on my heritage/ancestry… and I will want to expand more on my theories of morality and social responsibilities…as well as for all, leaving a legacy. Finally…return to view new entries under pages… to the left of your screen…with expansions to my theories and the latest theory…the Impact and implications of Power, Oppression, Competition and Discrimination. If anything, I think there is much to reflect on history…and our future…if we contemplate on and correct the Social Injustices that are attached to these four cornerstones of societal influences and community development. Time to visit…The Village Well. This metaphor to come in a later blog.
BE well…BE wise,

Dave

Support for the “Essence of Nursing”

While it has been a long time coming, there is now more “coverage” in the media regarding the seriousness of the nursing shortage. It needs to be viewed “beyond” thinking we need more physical bodies at the bedside. I have attempted to illuminate the challenges that will be faced and those possible/probable scenario’s that are in keeping with predictions of economic challenges and impact on resources and the environment…all collectively “coming to a head”, converging if you will…bringing a new reality for baby boomers in their twilight years and the generations that follow.

Here is “the bottom-line”…there will be a massive shift of demographic, collective conciousness,…and “essence” (as well as age and experience) at the bedside. We are already seeing the necessary reality that more “skills and tasks” such as medication administration, dressings and treatments are being performed by “nursing” personnel, outside of the Registerd Nurse designation. I who had first recieved the same number of years training as today’s Registered Practical Nurse, see nothing wrong with this,…I and countless numbers of others managed to perform those “skills and tasks” just fine. What is of utmost importance is the need to maintain a moral ethic, and as the “essence of nursing” a caring ethic.

Hear is the point being made…How does a caring ethic…and a moral mandate for that matter evolve? While there is plenty of discussion in the nursing literature….and we can attach ourselves to the Nursing Theories that align our orientation to “Caring”…”patient-centred-ness”, or a mandate that conceptualizes “care of the Whole person” (this would include family-centredness, recognition of occupation, spirituality, the roles one might play such as parent or grand-parent) if we so choose, (as part of the commitment to life-long learning…after graduation)… the question remains…is Nursing Education…moreso…is generalized…and traditional…grade-school and High School, facilitating this evolution. One could speculate that Religious -based schools and Private schools may be doing a better job of this, while public schools may be reliant on the leadership of the school (Principal/ Vice-Principal) and more-so, each individual teacher…of every single grade.

So,…for those of you who have an appreciation of where I am coming from (that there should be refrom of Nursing Education….but more-so, reform of Traditional Education…is imperative to assure that we will not just have enough “bodies” at the bedside…but that each one…regardless of prepartatory level of attainment to qualify to be there…but that we need moral and caring agents…complete with an understanding of Whole Person Care…and are truly altruistic and compassionate. There will no doubt be greater experience of suffering…and pain both physical and emotional…as technology excellerates interventions and treatment of “disease”…we will be challenged to deal with the impact of “illness” for literally Billions on this planet.

I share this with thoughts of relief that they will be enacting change that will have some positive impact on the environment…but….the Health Human Resources issue…is huge….not just in terms of numbers…but for the assurance that the spiritual aspects, emotional components, economic issues are prioritized as much as what do our Health CARE systems provide, beyond the Physical Domain of Health.

Please contemplate on these concepts…participate in discussions as to whether, morality and spirituality need to be better integrated into the education process…more-so…be proliferated and perpetuated in family life. All of us deserve to be recipients of a Caring Ethic. Attaching the “silo’s” that exist in our society needs to be the place to start…the earlier the better…for a solid “evolution” of society to be assured.

See the Social Integration Model…and Domains of Health Theory links left hand side of the screen.

BE well,…BE caring,

Dave

Sand and Stone

  SAND and STONE
TWO    FRIENDS    WERE    WALKING
THROUGH    THE    DESERT.
DURING    SOME    POINT    OF    THE
JOURNEY,    THEY    HAD    AN
ARGUMENT;    AND    ONE    FRIEND
SLAPPED    THE    OTHER    ONE
IN    THE    FACE.

   THE    ONE    WHO    GOT    SLAPPED
WAS    HURT,    BUT    WITHOUT
SAYING    ANYTHING,
WROTE    IN    THE    SAND:

TODAY    MY    BEST    FRIEND
SLAPPED   ME    IN    THE    FACE.
THEY    KEPT    ON    WALKING,
UNTIL    THEY    FOUND     AN    OASIS,
WHERE    THEY    DECIDED
TO   TAKE    A     BATH
THE    ONE     WHO    HAD    BEEN
SLAPPED GOT    STUCK    IN    THE
MIRE    AND    STARTED    DROWNING,
BUT    THE    FRIEND  SAVED    HIM.

AFTER    HE    RECOVERED    FROM
THE    NEAR    DROWNING,
HE    WROTE    ON    A    STONE:

“TODAY    MY    BEST    FRIEND
SAVED    MY    LIFE ”.

THE    FRIEND    WHO    HAD    SLAPPED
AND    SAVED    HIS    BEST    FRIEND
ASKED    HIM,    ”AFTER  I  HURT    YOU,
YOU    WROTE    IN    THE    SAND    AND    NOW,
YOU    WRITE    ON    A     STONE,    WHY?”

THE   FRIEND    REPLIED
“WHEN    SOMEONE    HURTS    US
WE    SHOULD    WRITE    IT    DOWN
IN    SAND,     WHERE    WINDS    OF
FORGIVENESS    CAN     ERASE    IT AWAY.
BUT,    WHEN  SOMEONE    DOES
SOMETHING    GOOD    FOR    US,
WE    MUST    ENGRAVE    IT   IN    STONE
WHERE    NO    WIND
CAN    EVER    ERASE    IT.

LEARN    TO    WRITE
YOUR    HURTS    IN
THE    SAND    AND    TO
CARVE    YOUR
BLESSINGS    IN    STONE.

 

 

 

 

Please see the New Pages added

Dave as Visionary is the newest page,…if you are just returning to visit, I do encourage you to scroll back to see how the blogs have evolved…I will post more of the impact of “inspiration” I have recieved from many in recent weeks…again thanks to my co-workers…and to families of MOTS.

Dave

How to use the Domains of Health theory to transform your life

If you were to commit to serious consideration about enriching your life and/or enhancing your overall health and well-being than comtemplate this.

Am I willing to commit 30- 60 minutes each day for 10 straight days?

If this would not be possible, commitment to 2-3 days per week during the next month…do not let procrastination undermine this opportunity…make up a contract with yourself…and start as soon as you are ready to follow through with that commitment. If need be, write a start date on your calender.

STEP 1: Write out why you wish transformation to occur. Inclusive of this statement would be that you do truly love yourself, and you will not accept less than what you can BE.

STEP 2: Beginning on day two, contemplate on (reflection) your definition of Physical Health, your belief of what you need to do to enhance (or improve) your state of Physical Health.

Day 3: Expand on your definition of Health by reflecting on your interpretation of Emotional Health. How would you go about enhancing your emotional health.

Day 4: Build on your defintion and solutions for Spiritual Health.

Day 5: Follow your path of discovery and definition of Health in the Social Domain.

Day 6: Using the link to review the defintion and distinction for Inter-relational Health, identify the issues and need for healing in those relationships of family and close ties (spouse…close friends, past and present)

Day 7: Continue your own describing and solutions for Intellectual Health.

Day 8: Time to reflect on and respond to your interpretation and orientation to all things natural, environmental interpretations both internal and external, as you define the Ecological Domain of Health.

Day 9: Define for yourself Cultural Domains of Health…how alligned are you to cultural realities of your heritage and who you are as a person and/or professional. What are “cultural” and social issues at your place of employment…in your community? How can you make an impact in enhancing your own cultural experience and that of others, inclusive of your children? How would you define and then live…a Legacy?

Day 10: The Biggest Day…reflect on how each of these Domains are related to each other…how are they connected? We know that emotional health impacts physical health. How does this connection manifest itself in your life? How would your approach to ecological domains be defined within your cultural realities. Has your social or culturalural domains been defined in such a way that they also define who you are spiritually? What intentional actions/responses can be taken to improve each of these domains…and the connections between each of them?

Step 3: Beyond Day 10: Can you continue to intentionally reflect on what is in the best interest for your health, the health of others and the health of the environment? Make a commitment daily to live intentionally in ways that will be transformative and loving. Have you resolved all resentment and past hurts…have you given yourself permission to let go of anger. Are you prepared to forgive…all?

Please return here for more,…but more importantly share your experiences…under comments,

BE well,

Dave

Inspired by “the New Democracy”

Well, the inspiration continued yesterday with inclusion of discussion of how the “blogosphere” represents a “true democracy.” It is allowing any and all to share their thoughts, feelings, insights and knowledge, in a forum that is relatively unrestrained by the conventional systems that have evolved to this day, under a social context that some have declared as a “democracy.” I know that Canada has this unique history, attached to the colonialist legacy, attached to the “evolution of” England. The United States also has the lineage legacy to the “British Empire,”…and is the greater reason why English language carries so much power and influence, as the “blogoshere” impacts the world. There are other countries that have greater numbers than the U.S., while we see that the “democratic” and “market based” economy has leveraged the US (and subsequently the English Language,…and the transition from monarchy to democracy) over the past two centuries. We see the effect of the “winds of change”, all around us. Greater ethno-cultural diversity…and rapid attachment to the evolving technology (cell phones for the eight year old and blackberry’s now in the hands of scores of teenagers,…just wait 5 more years).

What is most important, at this important cross-roads of change…is to capture the significance and potential of opportunity that exists for inter-generational visioning for a preferred future. The baby-boomers (of which I landed smack-dab in the middle) have enjoyed some priviledge and influence as they have pressed through the age demographic phases,…expanding what is desirable in terms of change. They will continue for 5-10 more years to have the leverage (advantage) by shear numbers and economy (they have money to influence others…especially the political system)…but they will be faced with increasing “competition” if you will, from Gen X’ers ( who are getting richer faster, even with less numbers) with the likelihood that, by sheer numbers and attachment to the technology to share information that can grow their own brand of society… Generation Y, could become richer, faster and do it working less hours and enjoy life more (time off for family, friends and fun) with less stress.

The idea that they could do this transformation of society with less stress will depend on their attitude and willingness to work with the Gen Xers and Baby Boomers. (Will it be an “attitude of Gratitude”?) In joking, my children…who are Gen X to Y “transitioners”, say that they will have to bear the burden of the over-consumption lifestyle of their parents. I would then retort back that it was the Atari, Texas Instruments, Nintendo….on to Play station, X-Box and computer systems purchased for sequential B-Days and Christmas (along with Tutoring, Dance Lessons, Soccer, Swim Team, Music and Drama lessons, that helped co-create their co-operative, creative, insightful minds that are now producing and propogating the solutions to save (or change) the world.

This will remain the reason why I will remain engaged in the Education of University students while promoting the “Power of the Blog”. I see the “power” issues that represent the underpinning of “formal” education. I see growing faster than any research based or “scientific enterprise”…the rise of the power of the “blogsphere”. Rather than a metaphor of a lunar eclipse that would darken the earth from the customary (and natural) illuminating power of the sun, the bright minds of Gen X will stimulate the minds of Gen Y, who will dazzle the Baby Boomer at an even more “dizzying” pace.  The Sun (of the new tech age) will actually seem brighter than ever before in history! Imagine a world that could BE if we chose to work together…letting go of the “power” leveraging,…and nurturing this New Democracy. I’m ready for this partnership,…lets talk…not blame, lets envision a preferred future….together,…we are all family on this globe, regardless of “mother tongue.”
Do reflect, do envision…be not afraid to Dream.

” You are what you settle for…you can be…whatever you dare to dream”

Dave

“finding” inspiration

I am lovin the “work” environment I am now in…and have been pleased that there are stories of inspiration all around me. I am grateful when other’s share enough of their “story” that I feel like a trusted friend. Well, inspiration came from all sides today as the environment (Multi-organ Transplant Unit) has its challenges…and some of the life journeys that patients and families endure as part of their new lease on life, is worthy of defining as a legacy…a legacy of strength, of spirit….a legacy of hope.

So thanks to all today, you know who you are…thanks for the inspiration.

Thank you also to my co-workers, the Multi-disciplinary “players” of the “MOTS” Team…and especially today to my fellow nurses (is that politically correct, if I’m the only boy-nurse there today?)

Yes, you press on, under the weight of a heavy burden…no, we do not feel the physical pain that the patient does, but we do grieve emotionally for the tough road ahead or the uncertainty that may often re-surface. All this is part and parcel of the “new lease on life”, whether a “new Liver” or a “new Legacy” is really what is included in each patient’s journey.

May you continue to inspire others, and may we all be brave, in the face of this impending nursing shortage vortex, and in sharing in the “hope” of a new dawn, a new day,….and a new life…for all our patients and their families.

To all readers,…please,…be inspired….sign your organ donation card….and leave a legacy.

BE well all,

Dave

In the kitchen

For those that were hopeful that some consistency would finally come to this Blog (essentially my journal), your patience is about to pay off. I have not been posting, that is obvious, but I have been busy “cookin’ up a plan.” I have to decide what to do with the remaining half of my life. Now that I am over 50, (and recently decided it will be worth sticking around until 100… thanks to Yoga and a new “Love Life” and love of life) I will share the latest “batch” of goodies that I am willing to share.

Not much of a baker at all in a real sense (only the metaphors turn out for those who have a taste for them…I know not everybody does)…I cook up ideas and then give them away…some I keep for myself or will be passing them off to family if they want them.

So…any takers, most of the current websites are up for grabs, first come, first served…I will share the entire list to those who hold genuine interest. Optimaldiabetesmanagement.com will be one, you can visit there or any of the links that are attached to Sandstonelifecentre.com.

There will be the new online communities that will be launched soon, one for those impacted by stroke, (differentstrokes4differingfolks.com) and another for those impacted by non-stroke brain injury…such as trauma, in honour of one who has inspired me immensly ( L.S.)
Look also for blueriverinnovations.com to get a sense of the career direction of consulting I intend on commiting to…it will eventually be all inclusive, in terms of population health, while emphasizing solutions fo child and youth mental health and enhanced flexible learning…enhancing the new paradigm in education. All of this is not new at all, just an evolution of the Social Integration Model (SIM) that you will find elsewhere in the blogs.

For now I leave you with “food for thought”…healthy food choices at that. We can have a preferred future, we can have a sustained prosperous and eco and human friendly agenda (click here)…under the umbrella of business…and we can indeed …change the world…we just have to learn how to think “beyond the box”. (Please, anyone, take a shot at what I am thinking as I reflect on this article…this piece of history)…how about you, Jamin?)

Find your rainbow…to find your pot-of-gold…first…cheerfully embrace the fact that it needs to rain…for there to be a rainbow….question is…can you supply the sunshine?

BE the change you wish to see in the world- Ghandi & Dave